I am one of those overprotective parents. I am aware of it, but I can hardly do much about it. I learn things all the time, but I still struggle to let my son enjoy his life and learn as much as possible from his childhood. So I tend to mess up now and then. I only hope to learn a new thing every time and not to repeat mistakes.
One day we were running around the pool with my son chasing each other. He tripped on a slightly raised crack in the floor and fell. …
I was listening to an interview with a former chairman of a national bank. He explained how the future ‘FinTech’ businesses will have to operate. He mentioned the term brutal self-reflection.
I often remember that and reflect on the meaning.
I applied for a CISO role with a FinTech company. The CEO of a company asked me an interesting question. “What percentage of the available resources would you dedicate to persecuting and capturing perpetrators if a hack occurred?”
I paused for a few seconds and replied: “Less than 50 percent.” My response surprised him. “Persecuting and catching criminal offenders is…
Robert Greene nicely described dependency in his book ‘The 50th law’:
“Think of it this way: dependency is a habit that is so easy to acquire. We live in a culture that offers you all kinds of crutches. Experts to turn to, drugs to cure any psychological unease, mild pleasures to help pass or kill time, jobs to keep you just above the water. It is hard to resist. But once you give in, it is like a prison you enter that you cannot ever leave.”
He also wrote we are more alone than we imagine and that it should…
I was thinking about how to present a specific topic to a CEO of a corporation. In a situation where they lacked the basic understanding of the topic, and I was not aware of that.
CEOs have very little time. Throwing it away on some ineffective presentations is the least of their wishes and wants. When not aware of their level of understanding, you are shooting blanks.
Suppose you take time to present the basics that they should and are familiar with. In that case, you are burning daylight, yours and theirs. They will stop listening, thinking about how to…
I have been experiencing some pain in my heel for a few weeks now. Plantar fasciitis can hurt like hell. And it makes you feel pretty fragile and insignificant.
Doing some research and study enlightened me on understanding the principle of cause and consequence (instead of putting my trust into eliminating symptoms).
I examined a ton of information, and merely a few of them made more sense to me. One source is my favorite when seeking to understand my anatomy issues — Jeff from AthleanX.
Listening to his advice made me think about evolution. He explained the mobility and anatomy…
Startup owners and small entrepreneurs frantically seek and chase ‘the low-hanging fruits.’ The popular buzzword often mentioned these days represents the easy money, the quick wins.
It reminds me of a poker saying:
“Everyone comes at the table to shear some sheep. If you can’t spot the sheep at the table, you are the sheep.”
Startups and small companies often forget the basic rules of nature. The big fish focuses on chasing small fish, so the small fish must focus on survival and self-protection.
But smaller entrepreneurs and unskilled startups often try to outsmart the system and focus solely on…
Both choices in the title show strong characteristics being counterintuitive and paradoxical by nature. Like winning the lottery, every young entrepreneur dreams of becoming an overnight success. But that is not the best solution one could hope for to become and stay successful.
I was always intrigued by the extent of various areas and topics the Dunning-Kruger effect can cover or interpret. It is fascinating to research and see all the other analogies it provides.
e community a…e or a bubble as some have predicted. It’s the building of a future where ownership is transformed. Where ownership isn’t controlled by accidental billionaires like Mark Zuckerburg. Where the community acts as a democracy. Where users own their data.
Yup, but the problem is that those accidental leaders have the time and resources to 'transform'. Like bad leaders, they learn to sing along the new leadership songs and end up fine (for them). Although, they never understand the lyrics.
…ect people. Facebook used to be a place to add friends to your life and make the world less lonely. Over time the drive to make shareholders wealthy got in the way. “Marketers ruin everything” as social media expert Gary Vaynerchuk says.
It's always the same thing getting in the way...
Those are the words that often accompany the weird. We all crave for and want something special in our lives. But we always shudder at a thought of doing something of a kind.
Special is an anomaly by definition. If you want to attract anomalies, you have to open yourself to them. Gary Vaynerchuck described that with his profound common sense.
“If you want to be an anomaly, act like one. People want all these special things to happen to them but they are acting like everybody else.” — Gary Vaynerchuck
I love chilling early morning runs. Windy with freezing…