From my experience there are always two ways to seek answers - the steelmanning and strawmanning way.
Those are actually communication methods, but the key point is in their difference. Steelmanning seeks the rights in the opposite stand, while strawmanning seeks the wrongs.

If you opt for steelmanning in your quest for meaning, you will find a good one. The best part is to train your ‘good-reason-finding muscle.’ Why?
Because it help you find some benefit in any situation.
We are experiencing many unusual phenomena, such as sinchronicities, which we are not ‘equipped’ to understand. They happen all the time with us not noticing.