I agree, to a point. I despise cheating, especially when one partner is all-in.

But ultimatelly, when I learned to take responsibility for everything that happens in my life, I could instantly see that:

It takes two to tango.

And I don’t mean to judge or accuse anyone, but two questions appear in my mind:

How attentive were you to her/them?

Where do you find them (both did it almost the same way)?

It really makes more sense when one deeply considers a quote like this one:

"The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude." — Oprah Winfrey