I am sorry, I probably wrote that invorrectly. English is not my native language, I appologize for the inconvenience.

What I wanted to express was that when for example, I get stressed because of someone’s inappropriate behavior, that becomes my problem. That person does not have a problem, most don’t care or even realize they did something wrong.
Your life can get ruined if you are surrounded with such people. Which means you have a problem you need to solve.

Also, I strongly disagree with all the comments in the video. Those men have issues. But I fear, as I often claim in other (judgemental) discussions, that such people actually need help. Because they have problems, they obviously cannot solve themselves. We (as a society) have two choices:
- try to find ways to help them (solve their problems and lower their numbers), or
- turn a blind eye, judge them for being scum, not being worthy of any help (and actually support them to worsen and grow in numbers).
Which one do you think, requires the person with a more mature ego (that you also expect from men)?
I believe my intention is similar to Mona’s, to help both genders find solutions that work. Ones we have been using so far somehow do not work.
I hope you can see what I wanted to explain (in all of my comments, actually) because I am not on the opposite side (sorry for my English🙃).