I think I got this one wrong…
Here’s a different perspective:
A neighbour can ruin your day just by looking at your house.

But it’s your interpretation. You decide what that means - him admiring at your house, or spying on you.

So, who can transform your feelings?

Check ‘To Burn Out or to Fire Up?’ https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/to-burn-out-or-to-fire-up-f3195e15f53e