I think you are over-generalizing. ‘Men’ as all men, majority, some men, those that are attracted by women with victim mentality?
I agree with most of what you wrote, but I am getting a feeling that you see us all the same, in one basket.
By the way, I read a nice statement: All those men you are describing were born and raised by women. If they were met with a crappy father figure, then they were solely raised by women. What kind of a woman raises a man like that?

That’s not my statement, but it sounds interesting to think about responsibility and balance.