Life is unfair. Or at least it seems until you get to see the larger picture.
Nothing is unfair, nothing is rigged against you.

Pointing fingers (in a wrong direction) is mostly present when we lack the big picture, when we don’t understand all the factors in play. But it is so easy to jump to (the wrong) conclusions.

Labelling anything as unfair is judgement. And the old proverb says: “Those who judge don’t undeestand. And those who understand don’t judge.”