Reading up to this, I thought about how that actually can be good. And how things in life really happen for us, not to us.

How we always need ‘a kick in the but’ to change, to grow. And that the bigger the pain, the stronger we become. We only have to survive the ‘self-created hell.’

https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/to-burn-out-or-to-fire-up-f3195e15f53e

It’s just that we never see the whole picture from anear.

https://borut.medium.com/you-may-never-see-the-whole-picture-6d5252bfc267

I am realizing lately that without bad things happening to us, there is no growth. Actually, it’s quite simple - we need balance. Like with electricity, we need both, positive and negative charge. And neither is actually good or bad.