We all have our life lessons to learn. No one is lost in the system, we all have our challenges to overcome.
And sometimes it is a good question, whether helping one actually helps them or robs them of the needed experience.

Like a toddler that never experiences the fall because of the helicopter parents. They actually rob their children of vital experience.
I know one that hasn’t delelopoed the reflex to protect his face when falling, and fell at 13 like the log and broke his nose.

We learn a lot from mistakes and hard situations. But we need to be willing to learn (instead of pointing fingers).
https://medium.com/illumination-curated/is-failure-really-a-lousy-teacher-a8dfb1ab858a